First, i would like to give KUDOS to all traders in this post..BRAVO! its nice to see a nice,peaceful and productive post.(not the same ole bashing and smart A.. comments that we see often)
After 1.5yrs as an aspiring trader, i used every indicator,automated software, educator service out there, blew up 3 times. Then it hit me, Price Action and the markets are gonna do what they are gonna do, with or without me. As a daytrader mental balance and achieving goals, reducing losses was key.
I also, came to the realize that every trader is watching PA in his/her own way and for one person 38% or 62% Fibs was a preference. But in reality its all the same shit! ( if price is going up or down) it will get from point-point eventually. So, i had to find my way of seeing Price and comfort zone to trade as mechanically as possible.
So, i fired my mentor, stopped reading trader forums (except TI, when i see good responses only) and gave it a K.I.S.S approach.
Mayor issue i found, was my trades were on point, but my stops were to big or i would move the stop making the loss larger. Then i noticed, i wasn't patient with staying in a trade for 3-4 hours so. Also, i was overtrading taking 20-25 a day was to much for my mental balance so, 3-5 trades per day. I started using all-in /all-out and trail my stop as trade goes in my favor.
Incresed my dollar per contract instead of overleveraging my act. This allowed for that mental demon to not tap me on my left shoulder and make me screw up a good trade. Then, set daily/weekly goal (realistic one) If i hit daily goal early, i cut size by 50%. If i hit weekly goal in the first 2-3days of the week, i will pay my self my %, cut size by 50% the rest of the week and take Friday off.
Some my argue this many different ways, but its what has worked for the last 3 yrs of my trading and it's as simple as possible and i can look at trading in the most 1+1 manner and love it more everyday.
I started on the ES then moved to TF. Now, i trade (TF,CL and GC) without complicating things and making a living.
Hope this helps any of you out there.
Tks.
Ed